Progress Not Perfection in the Dating Game

Time to drink to another Valentines day, but what can we do to take steps to progress, not perfection when it comes to dating? Let’s have a chat with resident dating coach Rami; I’ve been teaching geeks to date for 7 years. 7 YEARS. And in that time, I can tell you there’s one thing that’s been very consistent with the people I’ve taught.   …

How to be Confident when Things are Falling Apart

 Rami the geek dating coach is back! This week he interviews his old friend JP Lachapelle, the former lead singer of multiple bands, including Mire and Keychain. They talk about confidence, and how to build confidence as a geek. They discover the secrets to creating confidence where it doesn’t exist, and how to recover confidence when something bad happens in …

Spend Time With Humans

Today’s post is a short one! When I was single and lonely, Friday nights were the beginning of my weekend gaming binge. I’d get some junk food, usually starting with KFC, and start playing games as soon as I got home from work. The weekend would vanish, and suddenly it’s Sunday evening. My house would be a mess, leftover burgers …

Putting Dates on a Pedestal

Today’s lesson: don’t put them up on a pedestal! When you see someone that you think is attractive, as a human your first instinct is to think “wow, this person is amazing. He/she must walk on water. Probably when they poop it smells like flowers and butterflies on a beautiful breezy day.” We all do it. I do it. You …

Do You Like Yourself?

Self-Love Simple question: if you don’t like or love yourself, how can you expect someone else to love you? I see this all the time. People will come up to me and say “I’m looking for someone to love” or “I’m looking for the perfect person to complete me”. The problem is, these people often don’t have anything to offer …